God Saves and Uses Messed-Up People (Genesis 20)

  • This is one of the oddest stories in Genesis, but it has a powerful and encouraging message for us.

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Goal today:

That the story of Abraham,
a man who is so flawed,
but still used by God,
would encourage us.

God Saves and Uses Messed-Up People

  1. The story in Genesis 20
  2. How the story has been repeated
  3. The story for you and me

1. The story in Genesis 20

1. The Story

  • In Genesis 20 we read a rather strange story about Abraham
  • Abraham had just had a visit (Gen 18) from two angels
    • Within a year Abraham’s promised son would be born to Sarah
  • %bear in mind that Abraham & Sarah are supposed to be the%“Great man and woman of faith”
  • Note that Sarah has a story of messing up although not as bad as Abraham’s
    • She laughed out loud when she she heard that at nearly 100 years old she would have a baby next year
    • In the tent, so she didn’t realize she would be heard.
  • Read the chapter: Genesis 20
    • v.1 He did this out of fear!

Genesis 20

  1. Abraham journeyed from there to the Negev region and settled between Kadesh and Shur.
    While he lived as a temporary resident in Gerar, 2Abraham said about his wife Sarah, “She is my sister.”
    So Abi-melech, king of Gerar, sent for Sarah and took her.
  2. But God appeared to Abi-melech in a dream at night and said to him, “You are as good as dead because of the woman you have taken, for she is someone else’s wife.”
  3. Now Abi-melech had not gone near her. He said, “Lord, would you really slaughter an innocent nation?
  4. Did Abraham not say to me, ‘She is my sister’? And she herself said, ‘He is my brother.’ I have done this with a clear conscience and with innocent hands!”
  5. Then in the dream God replied to him, “Yes, I know that you have done this with a clear conscience. That is why I have kept you from sinning against me and why I did not allow you to touch her.
  6. But now give back the man’s wife. Indeed he is a prophet and he will pray for you; thus you will live. But if you don’t give her back, know that you will surely die along with all who belong to you.”
     
  7. Early in the morning Abi-melech summoned all his servants. When he told them about all these things, they were terrified.
  8. Abi-melech summoned Abraham and said to him,
    “What have you done to us?
    What sin did I commit against you that would cause you to bring such great guilt on me and my kingdom?
    You have done things to me that should not be done!”
     
  9. Then Abi-melech asked Abraham, “What prompted you to do this thing?”
  10. Abraham replied, “Because I thought, ‘Surely no one fears God in this place. They will kill me because of my wife.’
  11. What’s more, she is indeed my sister, my father’s daughter, but not my mother’s daughter. She became my wife.
  12. When God made me wander from my father’s house, I told her,
    ‘This is what you can do to show your loyalty to me: Every place we go, say about me, “He is my brother.”’”
     
  13. So Abi-melech gave sheep, cattle, and male and female servants to Abraham. He also gave his wife Sarah back to him.
  14. Then Abi-melech said, “Look, my land is before you; live wherever you please.”
  15. To Sarah he said, “Look, I have given a thousand pieces of silver to your ‘brother.’ This is compensation for you so that you will stand vindicated before all who are with you.”
  16. Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abi-melech, as well as his wife and female servants so that they were able to have children.
  17. For the LORD had caused infertility to strike every woman in the household of Abi-melech because he took Sarah, Abraham’s wife.

based on NET Bible


  • What on earth are we supposed to learn from it?

How Abraham fits in

  • If Sarah had got pregnant from Abimelech, it would have broken God’s promise
  • This is an attack of Satan—he puts fear into Abraham
  • But the very next verses are… Genesis 21

Genesis 21

  1. The LORD visited Sarah just as he had said he would and did for Sarah what he had promised.
  2. So Sarah became pregnant and bore Abraham a son in his old age at the appointed time that God had told him.
  3. Abraham named his son—whom Sarah bore to him—Isaac.
    • God did what he said he would, and kept his promise!
  • And the moral of the story is...
  • The was actually the second time Abraham had done this—it happened when he went down to Egypt.
    • What a “man of faith”
  • Let me ask you, why do you think this story is given to us at such length?

2. How the story has been repeated

2. How the story has been repeated

  • God still uses really messed up people
  • Although we may relapse and fail, God is faithful
  • King David—terrible stores about murdering and adultery
  • Woman at the well —why pick her as the one to bring the gospel to Samaria
  • Peter (denied Jesus, but Jesus restored him)
  • Woman who anointed the feet of Jesus (more later)

“The story of Sean”

The story of Sean
  • Sean’s story (not his real name)

“William Cowper”

William Cowper
  • Struggled with depression and suicide
  • A very flawed and damaged person,
    but he wrote some phenomenal poetry that has been a strength to countless people.

Hymns of Cowper

  • There is a fountain filled with blood
      Drawn from Emmanuel’s veins;
    And sinners, plunged beneath that flood,
      Lose all their guilty stains.

Hymns of Cowper

  • God moves in a mysterious way,
      His wonders to perform;
    He plants his footsteps in the sea,
      And rides upon the storm.
  • You fearful saints, fresh courage take;
      The clouds you so much dread
    Are big with mercy and shall break
      In blessings on your head.

3. The story for you and me

Why does God do this?

  • To reveal his love and compassion
  • So that we don’t try and claim we earned it
  • We’ll love him even more

Luke 7:36–47 - A woman anoints Jesus and washes his feet

  1. One of the Pharisees asked him to eat with him, and he went into the Pharisee’s house and took his place at the table.
  2. And behold, a woman of the town, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was reclining at table in the Pharisee’s house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment,
  3. and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wiped them with the hair of her head and kissed his feet and anointed them with the ointment.
  4. Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, “If this man were a prophet, he would have known who and what sort of woman this is who is touching him, for she is a sinner.”
  5. And Jesus answering said to him, “Simon, I have something to say to you.” And he answered, “Say it, Teacher.”
  6. “A certain moneylender had two debtors. One owed five hundred denarii, and the other fifty.
  7. When they could not pay, he cancelled the debt of both. Now which of them will love him more?
  8. Simon answered, “The one, I suppose, for whom he cancelled the larger debt.” And he said to him, “You have judged rightly.”
  9. Then turning toward the woman he said to Simon, “Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair.
  10. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet.
  11. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.
  12. Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven—and so she loved much. But he who is forgiven little, loves little.”

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  • Notice reaction of the Pharisee: “Jesus, why would you allow someone like that even near you?”
  • If you are not a Christian today, let this story encourage you!
  • Jesus wants your love, not your perfection

The story for you and me

  • God still uses really messed up people
  • Two kinds of people: those who know they are messed up, and those who don’t
  • Although we may relapse and fail, God is faithful (of course, this is not an excuse :)
  • How is Satan trying to discourage you from entering into God’s purposes right now?
  • Christianity is so opposite to every other religion.
    • No other religion portrays their founding heros as so flawed and so real. Who would have made that up?
  • King David—terrible stores about murdering and adultery
    • It is not about achieving some level, but of recognizing you don’t have what it takes
    • If you are not a Christian, the main thing probably keeping you is thinking you can make it on your own
    • The first step towards God is just admitting how flawed you are.
      • Please God, rescue me!
  • If you mess up, don’t let Satan paralyze you
    • Don’t be frozen by guilt
    • or fear of failing God
    • Tell Satan that it happened to Abraham and God still used him!
    • Step away from fear and say: “God has not given up on me…”